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Stories for Inspiration and Empowerment

The Soundtrack of my Life

Music and lyrics have the power to enhance a moment and lift your spirit or comfort you and transform an ordinary day into a moment worth remembering.  As far back as I can recall, I have been listening to, chasing and collecting what I believe are magnificent songs, and I always share these amazing finds with my friends and family.  At parties, I really can't help myself, I always end up taking over the music and playing songs for everyone. 

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How to formulate our wishes in the process of manifestation

Moving on to the super exciting next Phase of the Manifestation Process by Gary Hendricks, the 5 wishes. I will give you the exact same exercises we did during our course so that you can do them and get the whole experience. After experiencing the deep cleansing that we did in phase one (previous blog: Process of Manifestation Phase One) we are now ready to design the wonderful life that we really want. We manifest from a place of intentionality engaging our genius. We bring forth our heart’s desires into manifestation. This is what the process is all about. How do we do that?

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ManiFestation phase one

One thing that was really important to me was the health of my soul and my mind. I needed to remain strong and positive, not only so that I could share insights with The Modern Rule Community but also for the sustainability of my well-being project. I committed to it, regardless of the day I was having, this was a priority. I then learned and explored different tools and exercises.  I committed to consistency, openness and discipline.  I knew that, this was required by my soul and it became a CRUCIAL part of my life. I discovered the power of meditation (which for years I had convinced myself was not for me) and manifestation and it has helped enormously.  It provides me with a golden moment during my day. This Golden Moment contains a variety of exercises that help to clarify my desires and also keeps me aligned and focused. More importantly the Golden Moment keeps me in a state of gratitude and good spirits. Today I will describe for you the 3 stages of the Manifestation Process that I use

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And Then There Were Stars

Reading your unique Personal Year Number in conjunction with our Universal Year number, provides a deeper understanding of the greater cycles of Earth/Humanity and the influence this may have on your own experiences of your Personal Year.  To calculate your Personal Year number, simply take your day of birth, add it to your month of birth and then add this current year.  If the sum of these digits comes to a double digit, add these digits together to reduce the number to a single digit. 

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Live it like you mean it

I don't love Christmas for the winter scenery, hot cocoa and scarfs.  That has never been my experience. Nothing clashes with the idea of a snowy and white Christmas more than beachy sweaty days and champagne in the sun.  But hey!  I will take warm over cold weather any day. So, while snow is great, its such a privilege to be in a place that is warm for the holidays. If you think about it, a lot of places in the world right now either have summer weather or are in the middle of summer.  From the place where i grew up-Veracruz, or Miami where I live now, to places in South America or Australia, so I am not alone experiencing a sunny and warm Christmas.

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Your choice of words matter

The act of urging reflection and using words to support and motivate others is a noble and fruitful task. In my existence, one of my tasks has been to participate in forums to talk to others. I have a unique system for my speeches, but the only constant in my method is a small request I make before I speak, in which I silently ask the universe to send me a sentence that would help someone reflect and improve their lives. In honor of my mom and her eternal brilliance in telling us, as Silvio Rodriguez (a Cuban Singer) would say, the perfect word at the perfect time to get us out of the slump. And I have a short list that I have mentally put together from several lectures and research on the topic that I try to follow to respect my belief in the extraordinary power of words.  Here it is, I hope you find it helpful. 0

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A Magical Feeling and How to Develop it

My life has been filled with magical moments, lessons learned and wonderful people. More than anything I am grateful I was given the ability to be present and understand that time is the only currency that you cannot get back. This outlook on my life does not mean that I have not experienced tormentous moments and had challenges to overcome, more than anything,  the foundation of this perspective on life lyes on a deep sense of gratitude.

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Limitless Motivation: Find your queens

How did I get to be the “me” that is confident and celebratory of everything there is about me? Was it a journey or just destiny? At forums and events, the people I meet have asked me the same questions I have been asking myself over the years. First, what immediately ran through my mind after being asked these questions was: What? Do I look like that? I cannot say that these questions were not asked by me in a different fashion but along the lines of how did I get to the point where I truly do not care about what people think about my personal style or the way I conduct myself in life?

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Moments that Matter

Moments that matter is a concept that we utilize in our branding company when analyzing an audience, however we believe it is a key concept when you are building an ecosystem of supportive relationships around you.  If you take into account the moments that matter for your partner in life, your best friends, your siblings, your kids and your employees even, you will have a greater chance to succeed in your relationships with them by showing up when it matters. On the other hand it is important that you are very clear with others of your very own “moments that matter”.  

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The Power of a Magic Number

I guess it was easy to see why Pili wanted me to write a blog entry for today. I love numerology and 11:11 is a favorite number and part of the story of my adulthood. November 11th is for me a special day of introspection and manifestation every year. This year is even more special. But let's start from the beginning. In Numerology, 11 is a Master Number. It’s the number of unique creation, authentic expression, and rapid manifestation. It contains the pioneering ignition spark of the number 1, and the soothing, sensitive, psychic gifts of the number 2

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there are eight versions to one story

As I was preparing to start my University in Mexico, my family and I had a splendid summer in this small little town in Spain. That Summer, my sister and I met one of our best friends for life as he was part of this wonderful, truly interesting and fun group of friends who shared a fantastic Summer with us. As expected, the love bug of summer got the best of us. That summer I met a tall and handsome boy who caught my eye and we ended up hanging out the whole summer.

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Find Your Tribe

Let’s just say, life is just not the same without a Tribe. There are so many studies about happiness and fulfillment, from Harvard to Stanford, that mention how incredibly important are relationships and the quality of them within the concept of happiness.

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